Resolving the Identity Crisis
Wednesday, December 5, 2007 at 3:59AM 
Greetings to Susie Larson's beloved readers! Susie has graciously given me the opportunity to post in her absence this morning, and because I know Susie and her heart for serving God and His people, I consider it a privilege. Thank you, dear Susie!
I recently heard a story about a rather obnoxious man who had apparently become a legend in his own mind. He was at a busy airport, standing in a very long and slow-moving line, when his impatience overtook his manners and he shoved his way to the front counter, demanding to be waited on immediately.
"I'm sorry, sir," the attendant said, "but you'll have to wait your turn."
Incensed, the man demanded, "Young lady, do you know who I am?"
The woman calmly picked up the microphone and announced, "Ladies and gentlemen, there is a man at the front counter who doesn't know who he is. If anyone can identify him, will you please step to the front of the line and help us out?"
Needless to say, the humiliated man snatched up his bulging briefcase and returned to the back of the line.
A humorous story? Sure. But there's a nugget of truth in it that we all need to hear, especially in this very busy time of year. Here it is: The greatest problem humanity has ever faced is not global warming or suicide bombers or widespread famine; it is identity crisis. All humans since the great orchard thieves (Adam and Eve) have spent their lives wandering this earth, trying to discover their identity. For the most part, they've failed.
People try to fill their longing for identity with accumulated wealth, fame, relationships, busyness, alcohol and drugs...any number of things. But none of it works. The apostle John is the one who nailed it when he referred to himself as "the disciple Jesus loved."
Isn't that the starting place for any of us who sense that longing for greater purpose, that built-in knowing that there's more to life than serving ourselves and building our own kingdoms?
I have a friend name Sarah, who is a very talented writer and whom I recently asked for an endorsement for my next book, BEYOND ME: LIVING A YOU-FIRST LIFE IN A ME-FIRST WORLD (New Hope Publishers, July 2008). Sarah graciously read my manuscript and gave me an excellent endorsement, but what most impressed me was the way she signed it: "Follower of Jesus."
Unlike the self-inflated man at the airline ticket counter, Sarah knows who she is. She is, first and foremost, a follower of Jesus, even as the apostle John knew himself as "the disiple Jesus loved." As the busyness of Christmas threatens to overwhelm us all, may we refuse to be caught up in activities and pursuits that don't matter, and instead focus on developing and enhancing our true identity and who we are in Christ. May the assurance of that identity carry you safely and joyfully through your sojourn here on earth and on into eternity with Him.
Kathi Macias
BEYOND ME: LIVING A YOU-FIRST LIFE IN A ME-FIRST WORLD (New Hope Publishers, July 2008)
Reader Comments (2)
For even though there is not a single verse in scripture that would justify teaching the idea that John was the one whom "Jesus loved" you assume that this man-made tradition cannot be wrong and then interpret scripture to fit this idea. But if you will heed Ps. 118:8 then the NON-BIBLE sources on which this tradition is based need to give way to the facts stated in scripture which prove that John was not this anonymous author.
TheDiscipleWhomJesusLoved.com has a free Bible-only based study that compares what the Bible says about John with what it says about "the disciple whom Jesus loved" - and the Biblical evidence proves that whoever this person was he was not John because the Bible cannot contradict itself.